What About Brian

Wow. What a finale. I truly hope this isn't the end of this show, but if that is its fate, I applaud ABC for a touching end that combined this drama's finest elements: humor, jealousy, confusion, sincerity and truth. The last group scene was all we could ask for, and with Brian at Laura's door, we can only assume those renewed vows made him think enough to get it right for once. If we never see Brian and his friends again, I'd like to think the thirtysomething love failure learned enough lessons along the way to settle into the perfect nook.

And I think we owe it all to Dave and Deena. Their journey this week was pretty hectic, but classic in terms of a Brian situation. But when Dave gave that little speech about going back in time and finding those people they used to be, the cows seemed to agree. And apparently a roll in the grass confirmed their craziness when they were yelling out their love for no one to hear.

Back in the real world, "whoever wakes up Uncle Brian is grounded forever." I think seeing Bri dressed up as Pretty, Pretty Princess was one of my favorite moments this season. But Nasty Natty doesn't want to play. (That's right, I renamed her.) Be a little kind to the children, will you? You had to know Supernanny Adam would show up in this awkward situation, especially after the guys' pact about dating within their circle. Did anyone else love watching the guys take care of the kids? What was better was when Laura showed up (I pretty much have nothing to say about Stephanie). Not only did we get to see the calm, likable person she is, but she pretty much handed it to Natasha. Plus, let out that little Nic secret that apparently everyone didn't know about. Adam definitely knew how to twist things around to make Natasha crumble.

And it was a good thing he showed up at the cupcake shop with his "no crying in baking" jokes. What a disaster! Frosting everywhere, angry customers. And let's not forget it was Ivy Day. Kind of. "I hate people. I hate cupcakes. I hate sprinkles."

As for me, I could almost sense the sadness these actors might have been feeling while shooting this finale. If you looked closely enough, it's almost as if Barry Watson was saying goodbye with every scene — we got a very serious side of Brian tonight, and I think that transfers over into the idea of letting this show go. Still, I loved Adam's games, Dave's sensitivity, Jimmy adorned in a messy apron and Brian piecing together his life. Thanks for changing my mind, ABC. I wasn't so sure I'd latch on in the beginning, but I might feel a little emptiness on Monday nights now. Maybe I'll fill my 10 pm hour with cupcakes. And piles of sprinkles.

"They mean me. I'm the worst accessory." Aw, Brian. It's your fault for getting over Bridget so fast and sucking face with Legs in front of hundreds of cameras. I thought it was hysterical that Dave decorated Brian's office with all those photocopies — it's definitely a typical blow that would happen to him. I'm already dismissing his "thing" with Stephanie. I predict a big acting gig to take her away and leave Laura to get closer to Brian and settle into an actual relationship. But those are just my guesses and I won't discuss what was shown in the previews, since some of you may not have seen them. I'm definitely eager to see the finale, because I feel a big cliff-hanger coming on (or two, or three).

What was Nicole thinking by sharing her little love tumble with the baby-class mommies? Her story line usually bores me (except for the Adam twist), so I was just shaking my head at her once again. The mommies were nasty to her, though! But, I will give Nicole cupcake points for snagging that open space for Deena. How irritating was the lady grabbing all the free samples?

The argument in the cupcake shop was hilarious. (By the way, who just starts up a store that quickly?) I love Ivy and Jimmy. They are energy combined with humor combined with sarcasm combined with love. I never get tired of watching them interact with the group and, more importantly, with each other. Plus, it was hilarious when the mean mommies revealed Nicole's secret, leaving Brian stunned and prompting a great exit by Adam.

Speaking of Adam, Fatty Natty's playing games and they're not video-related. I found her little speech about not caring and showing no emotion pretty funny, but I think her antirelationship rules will break down after a while and we'll see the soft side come out. After all, she did let Adam in when he needed to talk, and I'm hoping she gave him some worthwhile advice, because ever since he became partner, work has been pretty shady, and I'm wondering how long it's going to take before he goes against the grain and puts his job on the line for the law. It was hard to watch him feel as terrible as he was when he met the client to get that signature.

As for Dave and Deena, I loved the proposal at the end (nice rock, Dave!), and it's about time they aren't the dark cloud hanging over everyone's heads. The question is, will the wedding actually happen?

There's a lot on the line as we go into next week's finale, especially not knowing if another season is picked up yet. Will Natasha show emotion? Will Adam throw her own game back in her face? Will this be the end of Stacy Keibler? Or, dare I say, the end of a show I've grown to adore? I've never before wished for a Monday to arrive like this.

It was very hard for me to watch Brian dig into chocolate ice cream and chocolate brownies, seeing as how I recently gave up chocolate… temporarily.

Can we just talk about Dave wearing that apron? Hilarious, sexy, cuddly? Take your pick. Just when he's getting his groove back, he sees Deena's Richard at the kids' school and then learns about Brian's promotion. Tough day?

How perfect was Meredith Baxter as Deena's mother, though? I had a few Family Ties flashbacks — all that wise advice she gave Mallory, all those sentimental moments in the kitchen, let's take a moment to remind ourselves that Elyse Keaton does know her way around domestic troubles — but she's hilarious as this older mom, sweeping in like a hurricane, blurting things out. "Are you two having sexual intercourse?" My god, woman! She's still getting in the way of love — nothing like sending your grown daughter to bed in a nightie and her husband to his own room at the opposite end of the house. But she really crossed the line by bringing Mark (Tyrone Giordano) into the picture and meddling with their relationship. (By the way, Tyrone, loved your work in The Family Stone.) I guess that's what mothers do, though, and obviously she doesn't want her daughter to get hurt, but does she know that Deena caused the separation in the first place? I was so proud of Deena when she told her mom the truth, and the signing was a great addition to the conversation — it almost made it stronger than her shaky voice and bold words. At least that secret's out (and I'm pretty sure Nicole picked up on them dating again when she saw them at the restaurant).

Speaking of Nicole, I'm glad getting it on with Adam was just a one-time thing (I think), because Natasha seems to suit him better, even though that can't last too long considering Tiffani Thiessen is a guest star. Adam's face was priceless when Ivy was going on about Nic's little rendezvous. Being "nothing special" wasn't exactly what he wanted to hear, and things seemed messy all around for him this week, but at least he heard the truth about his skills in the sack from Nicole herself later on. So, secret no. 2 is floating around now, too, and I'm pretty sure Ivy isn't the safest mouth to hold in that information.

Brian's stepping into secrets without meaning to, poor guy. Let's start with his neighborly favor. Leave it to sneaky little Stephanie to butt in on his plans with Laura. I guess her legs can't be denied, but I think he would have enjoyed a Clippers game more than feeling uncomfortable on the red carpet. Although he didn't seem that uncomfortable sucking face with Steph, but I saw the red flag before it even happened. Uhhh… hey Brian? Red carpet, cameras, Laura does have eyes. I'm guessing their relationship will slowly build, now that most of us are onto the idea of them eventually getting together (since she's in the opening credits and all). Stephanie must be a little test for our love-torn friend.

As for his other secret that I mentioned earlier, Dave was a trooper about having Brian as his boss. I'm not sure whose side to be on, because Dave is in a crappy spot, but Brian didn't ask for the position, either. I'm glad they came together in the end, putting Nat in her place and proving that they do work well together. She's still walking around with a power trip, though.

But by far the best secret of all, my favorite part of this entire episode of sexy romps and traveling whispers, was Ivy's past. The fact that she was Little Tammy and living off her childhood royalties is such a brilliant twist — I love when Ivy's embarrassed, because the tough girl fades away and she can't do anything about it. She's such a spaz and it's a refreshing tangent from the other women. By the way, did anyone else notice that the cardboard cutout said "TV Source" on it and looked very similar to a certain brand we know and love?

I definitely liked this episode because things are moving forward with delicious bites here and there — pancake family breakfasts, friendly neighbors, gigantic mansions, office sexcapades. Keep it up, ABC.

Relationships are so tangled in this episode, I don't know where to begin. How about Nicole and Adam! Wow. When I saw Nicole in bed, I knew it was him. After learning that Jamie really is gay and seeing Adam get rejected twice and then watching them share a clumsy and off-key karaoke performance together — singing out their misery — I figured it was only a number of drinks and a matter of time before they'd satisfy each other's frustrations. It sounded like Jamie was confused for a minute, but it's pretty clear who he's romantically interested in. It was a little weird seeing Ivy and Nicole hanging out alone, but I really like Ivy. I think she's been a great addition to this show, and she's been a good friend — trying to avoid Nicole seeing Jamie cozy up to another man (although, it wasn't that good of a job considering she was staring directly at them).

And before their rendezvous, Adam had completely gone nuts. Who would think to fire off marshmallows, of all things, as a way to release some pent-up sexual frustration? It was hilarious when his boss brought up his vow of celibacy. "Tonight, I want you to get laid." He can't have any distracted partners on his team. I was cracking up during dinner when Adam actually coughed up the word "toast" to get some help impressing Stephanie, and then when it didn't work, calling Brian a bad wingman.

Speaking of Brian… he was down to 15 minutes in the sack and completely disconnected to his girlfriend. He seems to attract all the attention, which usually gets him in trouble, and this time proved to be no exception. Enter Stephanie dressed as a cowgirl. She couldn't have been anymore straightforward when they were rehearsing the presentation, but I'm glad he turned her down. I felt bad for Bridget this week. She was really putting an effort into getting their groove back and she was kind of pushed to the back burner. She's too fed up, going with her gut and never looking back. "I feel like I live in a dorm room." Laura studying outside so Stephanie could hook up with one of the Japanese guys was very dorm room, if you ask me. Is this the beginning of Laura and Brian? Or will he try to get Bridget back? By the way, are bean-bag chairs really filled with Styrofoam peanuts?

Dave and Deena's story line was bittersweet. I loved how their older daughter figured out that they were talking to each other on the phone — gave her a little bit of hope. When they went out to dinner, Deena's college story seemed like something Dave would have said, so it was good to hear it from her for a change. But I think Dave's shy expression while she was telling it was even better. I knew it couldn't be the perfect first date, so although it was heartbreaking to see them at the hospital with Carrie, it didn't surprise me that something so traumatic would interrupt. I guess it's better, though, because it would be too awkward if they went back to their old life immediately. Deena's persistence about Carrie being able to hear rebuilt that wall between her and Dave, but then I guess we wouldn't have seen him make such a sensitive move later that night.

I'm still loving Tiffani Thiessen as the boss who just won't quit. When Gary was freaking out about getting fired, I was cracking up at her laid-back expressions. It's hard getting attached to guest stars, because you know they're eventually leaving, but they definitely provide needed twists to the show. Overall, things seem messy after this episode. I think the negatives outweighed the funny moments this week, but hopefully our quirky friends will iron things out next time. Or even better (for us viewers at least), surround themselves with still more chaos.

I think I'm favoring some of the new faces on this show.

Jessica Szohr is a feisty one! There was definitely a spark between her and Brian before Stephanie came in with her thigh-high boots, asking for a T-shirt to sleep in. There's a lot of sexual tension within that apartment complex, and I'm not sure how Brian and Bridget will fare while Lucy and Ethel are around.

Tiffani Thiessen is a welcome addition as well. (Check out my interview with Saved by the Bell’s Kelly Kapowski to hear about her Brian guest run.) She's just getting started stirring the pot among Dave and friends. In fact, it looks like she's on the prowl in the previews, but we'll have to wait two weeks to find out who falls under her spell. I definitely saw some of my old friend, Valerie Malone, from Beverly Hills, 90210. The devilish smirk, the secret scheming… that's pure Val right there. But Fatty Natty's carving her own mold despite hints of the previous bad girls Thiessen has on her résumè. And although she's just on What About Brian for a set amount of episodes, I think it'll cause enough of a whirlwind at work and home to shake up the group.

And even though Jimmy isn't a new face anymore, he's brilliant and making his way up the list of faves. He's constantly busting Adam about work and women, and he couldn't have proven his position better than fooling his sex-starved friend at the office and embarrassing him in front of the boss. Plus, it's always a laugh watching him and Ivy go at it.

Speaking of Adam… he may be "celibate as a monk," but he's about to get caught up in some heated action at work. After that sketchy situation in the copy room, it looks like his new position may have put him in a poisonous spot. I hope he doesn't get sucked into the unlawful side of the law and start tampering with evidence. Does that mean Jimmy's been "doing what it takes," too?

Meanwhile, Deena was doing anything she could to get Dave's attention after the naked incident, but little did she know he was already noticing her every move. Finally, some relief from their bickering and sadness. Is this the beginning of a reunion? I wouldn't want them to jump right back in, but a date was a good idea, and maybe they can start over from that dorm-room feeling they had so long ago.

Things were heating up for Nicole, too. Manny Jamie was showing off his abs again, and the lonely mom just couldn't handle it. He seems too young for her, but I guess his mature nature makes up for the fact that she looks like his aunt.

Is there anyone average-looking on this show? I think the theme — aside from Brian finding his one love — seems to center around characters that are "easy on the eyes" and everyone feeling distracted by abs, legs, heels and haircuts. Hey, at least Brian's not just the landlord anymore and he's back in the gaming saddle again. Things change for him almost every week. No wonder he can't settle into anything permanent. Ever.

Adam… come on, buddy. A vow of celibacy? You realize what fasts do, right? They just make you crave the forbidden fruit even more. But I guess "guys night" didn't hurt, since the boys ended up at a gay bar. At least Brian got a number in case things with Bridget blow up in his face.

Once again, Dave held it together during a tough time. I can't come down on Deena too hard for having difficulty watching Carrie's surgery, but I think I just have a sour taste in my mouth when it comes to her, so I automatically see the bright shining light that is Dave. I liked seeing the whole gang in the waiting room. They always come together to provide those touching tidbits before dramatically self-destructing.

On a funnier note, the "spatially-challenged" couple definitely had some adjusting to do after officially moving in together now that they aren't bringing in any dough. Bridget was on top of her game, though, hopping back and forth to interviews, while Brian begged Dave to never move out in case disaster arises. Brian? Disaster? No, never! Barry Watson does his distraught character justice with this line: "I have to be on my best behavior all the time. This is no way to live." But apparently, he thinks being the handyman — excuse me, building manager — and living rent-free is the way for him and Bridget to live. She didn't seem thrilled, but I personally thought he looked cute with his hat on and spackle in hand.

Dave the Nomad tried moving in with Adam when he realized he couldn't handle being around B&B, but he wasn't prepared for naked breakfasts, porn on the gigantic TV and waking up to music blasting. Sounds like the morning after a frat party, no? Dave had his mind in daddy places — not, Who's your daddy? — concerned about Carrie and keeping the peace with Deena for the time being. The answer was to move back into the house. I finally applauded Deena for making a good move. It was nice to see them on the couch watching The Notebook as James Garner uttered, "Nothing is ever lost or can be lost."

That pretty much applies to everyone this week. Nicole's out of her neurotic, no-sleep phase and back at work. But the new mommy seemed out of place at the office. Looks like her priorities have changed since having Bella. She's ready to fall in love again, too, and "Manny" Jamie's six-pack might have helped along that feeling.

Brian's not ready to lose, either. After Dave's encouraging advice, I'm glad he let Bridget know he really wanted her to be there, and it was nice to see her do the same. I foresee a rocky road ahead for those two, though. With Brian's new neighbors (welcome, Stacy Keibler and Jessica Szohr!) in the picture, there's bound to be some interference. I loved the slow motion as the girls got out of their car. I was thinking, "Adam, quick, don't look at the very leggy blonde!" I'm sure Brian has a few moments ahead of him that might land him in the doghouse. (Check out my interview with Stacy and what she has to say about her character's interaction with Brian.) Bridget, meet Stephanie and Laura. Brian, meet disaster. This should be interesting.

Most importantly, though, the previews gave us a peek at Brian's new haircut, and I had a mini celebration. I was getting used to the moussed-back 'do, but it was time for a new style. New roommate, new neighbors, new career, new look. Good luck, Bri.

Don't we all love a weekend away in a cozy cabin with tons of space and plenty of room for drama? And who doesn't get a chuckle out of Dave wearing a fishing hat? Memories were floating around the lake — Dave's proposal to Deena, Adam's wine scare and Marjorie thoughts — and the new people are feeling out of place. Or one in particular.... "Women don't like me." Aw. Poor, pretty Bridget. No girlfriends, no gossip pals. Just one large basket of awkward. But what does she expect being Daddy's leftovers? (Kind of funny that they were in his cabin.) She was not faring well among the ladies at first. After all, she's a dog person. I thought it was hilarious how she was giving everyone a title, like Jimmy and Ivy being the "sex couple."

It was pretty bold of Heather to show up at the hospital to talk to Marjorie. "What is your intention toward my husband?" Direct and to the point. History trumps a month-long marriage… even if Marjorie did hurt him. We knew he wasn't going to let go that quickly. The look on his face when Marjorie showed up at the cabin said it all. At that moment, I thought he was falling right back into the quicksand of their past.

The guys fishing together was a great scene — women talk, a little jab here and there, binoculars…. If that isn't a What About Brian moment, I don't know what is. Even better was watching Dave and the girls out on the dock and Deena witnessing how great he really is with their kids. Wake up, Deena. Wake up.

Game night was hilarious, and it turned out Bridget was the competitive one of her own title predictions. But talk about competition — Heather showed up and the gang was suddenly standing outside freezing, huddling together in their clique. It led to one angry stripper storming out, and one sweet moment between Brian and Bridget. One outsider sent home, another welcomed in.

There couldn't be a vacation episode without some middle-of-the-night sneaking around, right? And the lyrics, "Don't you want, don't you need, to be forgiven" played as Adam pulled Marjorie into his room. Funny, I kind of expected Brian to crumble the longer Marjorie stuck around, but he's really the steady one. But in a surprising turn, it appears that Adam didn't crumble, either. He chose himself.

The IRS cleaning out the real estate company was a surprise, too. Bye-bye, Daddy! Looks like a weekend away can be anything but a vacation. It did provide for some funny quotes, though. Here are my favorites from tonight:

Deena: "We thought we'd do some hunting and gathering."
Brian: "Might as well put a dress on me and call me Lola."
Bridget: "I was way too competitive, I took the best bedroom and now I'm the crying girlfriend."
Bridget: "Oh, my god, I'm having a girlie conversation!"

I'm warming up to Bridget, I have to admit, but she's still an outsider in my mind. I wonder if that's the last we'll see of Marjorie for awhile. All I know is, two weeks from now, a couple of new faces welcome their way in, and nothing remains good for too long with this group.

Marjorie's return is immediately making me side with Adam and put up a wall for him. Here's this guy who thought his life was totally together, who genuinely cared about his fiancée, who was happy and going places… and then he's left at the altar, putting him back at square one, totally disheveled and finding himself cornered into new experiences. OK, so he may have been on a time line before, a little rigid even, but he didn't deserve to be deserted like that. Oddly, though, I'm happy she left him. He needed to live more, find a new groove, find his friendship with Brian again. So, I don't want to see Marjorie dig into him again. Watching him stand out on the balcony staring out into nothing was hard. Am I making sense?

On the other hand, Dr. Marj being back in town during Dave and Deena's time of need is convenient and a good tie-in with her and the group again. Dave and Deena are at yet another crossroads, but I'm not surprised. Deena never ceases to aggravate me. Why is she pretty much making decisions without consulting Dave, even though she says that's not what's happening? She's completely frustrating to watch. I understand why Dave wants a neutral doctor, the protective-dad part of him just blew up, but can you blame him? It's been a rough few months.

But the funniest part of this whole maelstrom of lunacy is Brian's six-week sabotage history and the anticipation of a possible breakup that's looming over his head. But Bridget's different. I'm not her biggest fan by any means, but she really does have some great moments with Brian that actually make me laugh out loud. Like that scene outside when they were both yelling about each other's annoying traits — hysterical. "It's not a ship-to-shore call! It's 2007! Talk. In. A. Normal. Voice!"

I was surprised at how at ease Brian seemed around Marjorie. She seemed on edge, but he was pretty calm. But Adam is in a totally distressed state, and I wasn't really sure at first if he was completely caught up in Marjorie's return or Heather's past. But obviously a lot of hurt lingers, because his visit to Marjorie's office was pretty heated. This may just be the downhill push some anti-Heather viewers were hoping for.

Meanwhile, Nicole's nanny issues weren't that engaging to me until Mr. I-Think-of-Myself-as-More-of-a-Teacher rang the doorbell. But there was one funny scene beforehand that made it worthwhile: Alexis saying infants kind of freak her out. "You need to fire that girl. She's too hot to be a nanny, and too dumb." Well played, Brian. Better played than asking Bridget to move in! What kind of cure is that for the six-week slump? Come on, Bri, use your brains…. I know they're under that mop of yours somewhere.

Now, bring that twisted idea into a house filled with several messed up relationships, and we've got the thickest tension ever known to any room ever and one awkward birthday party. Plus, Nic's breast-feeding mommy cleavage is out of control! But she might have stopped fighting the breast pump long enough to do some damage control for Brian. Not everyone can be saved by attending a bittersweet celebration for a troubled 1-year-old, though. The minute Adam smiled at Marjorie, I knew all my hopes for a healed Adam holding up a strong front flew right out the door along with Heather. The question is, will it really be as simple as that? Or is Adam having a setback that most burned relationship victims have post-trauma? "I want you back," she said. Greeeat. Somehow Brian survived seven weeks (and acquired a new roommate), but everyone else is standing on shaky ground.

Great golf opener. Putt like a third grader, tease like a teenager ("You married a stripper, right?"). Laying the cards out on the green pretty much proves that everyone on this show has some major baggage/issues/potential to self-destruct.

Like Nicole, for example. With her hoodie up and whisper on, it's all about baby steps to acquiring motherhood wisdom, and let's just thank friendship that Deena knows what she's doing (or, by default of Dave's two-handed transfer). OK, self-destruction is avoided here, but baggage? Ohhh boy....

Marjorie's name is uttered after a very long hiatus, and all the swarming madness that comes with it just came rushing back. Meanwhile, Adam and Heather are robbed by a Summer fan and the flat-screen/LCD/hi-def/whatever-it's-called no longer swivels. We knew her quitting "dancing" couldn't be that easy, right? You may have bought out the club, Adam, but now you have no TV to watch when you snuggle up with your former lap-dancing wife, who probably collected most of her tips in S-shaped dollars.

Is Nicole covering her unwashed new-mommy hair under hoods and hats? She's clearly suffering from indoor, baby-only, doing-it-on-her-own exhaustion — "No wonder you look like a tornado hit you." Ouch. Note to Uncle Brian: Don't disobey a new mommy's rules about her precious handful of joy. And some advice for the experienced mommy? Straightened hair (did she borrow those extensions from Paris Hilton?) and a red Oscar dress (good call, Dave) won't stop your separated husband from dating the pigtailed 20-year-old who is actually nice and not annoying enough to be evil... yet. Plus, she noticed the hearing problem before the parents did. I understand Deena's nerves about Roxanne taking over and her kids adoring the new woman in Dave's life, but she needs to get a hold of herself! The Dave-Deena competition is still going. But in a release from the bickering over their usual mess, the moment at the doctor's office erased all my anger toward their situation.

Ever seen a ghost? Even I felt the couch move beneath me when Brian saw Marjorie outside the steak house. (Side note: Ivy cracks me up, and she still has these occasional expressions that remind me of her cynical Meghan character on Felicity.) And just like that, we're back where we started. "If she walked through the door right now, what would you do? How would I know you don't want her? How would you know?" Bravo, Bridget.

I can't believe Schmitty (Patrick Fischler) is actually suing Heather! This should be interesting. Will Adam defend his own wife against an ex lap-dance lover? Isn't that a conflict of interest? I can wait for that ending... but what I can't wait another week for is this disaster that just came back to haunt us all. I'm half worried/half excited that Dr. Marjorie is back in town with a new 'do and a lot of explaining to do. There was something about Brian and Adam standing next to each other with those cold looks in their eyes that made it seem like they had won, beat the virus, spun her out of their universe. I kind of felt proud of the guys, after all they had been through, and even though the previews suggest otherwise ("Your new life will self-destruct in five, four, three... "), I'll just leave it at that.

Rule #1: Never interrupt a girl-on-girl story.

The holidays are over and the Brian drama is right where we left it. Nicole's still pregnant, Dave and Deena are still separated, and Heather's still a stripper.

Adam's not too happy about it, either. I can see why he's upset about Heather dancing, but it's hard to readjust your entire lifestyle because of one rash decision. Despite the fact that they don't know much about each other, I'm rooting for their marriage now. Figuring it all out along the way might actually work for them. The moment in the hospital when they were talking about having kids was really sweet.

I loved everything about Dave in this episode, but really... when don't I? But I'm getting tired of the Dave/Deena competition that's been going on. The entire drive to the hospital was making me nuts. But I knew it would come to that. How could Nicole say no to his delivery-room offer? "If I was in labor, I'd definitely want me with me." Aw! He does have a scar to prove he'll stick around during the worst contractions. And he was really there for her during the whole Angelo-was-a-cheater revelation. Dave's the super friend in this episode: looking out for Nicole, going with Adam to "support" Heather, telling Brian to call him so he doesn't do something he regrets on the company retreat.

Rule #2: Never go after your father's sloppy seconds.

Apparently that went out the window. How awkward was it seeing Brian, Bridget and good old Dad having drinks? But I have to say that when Brian and Bridget were going at it back in the room and she ends up in the closet: hot! We went from arguing to steamy in .5 seconds.

Things seemed to be wrapping up nicely for the Brian crew, especially appropriate music during emotional scenes, couples playing nicely and one cute baby named Bella. In the past hour, the drama changed quite a bit. Nicole's no longer pregnant, Heather's no longer a stripper, and Dave and Deena are still separated. Well, two out of three, right? But just when I was ready to applaud this episode for its sexy and heartfelt moments, my blood pressure rose a bit before the credits rolled. As Adam and Heather proved they really are "in this forever," I said to my roommate, "Now, I kind of don't want Marjorie to come back." And just like that, the drama took a turn and the past found her way back home. She may be shocked at what's happened since she's been gone, though. And you know what? I hope she is.

Rule #3: Don't think you can return to an old life and shake its world, which was doing just fine without you since you ran off and left it!

OK, so that's not exactly in Dave's Rules of Life handbook, but you see where I'm going with this....

Well, the players may have changed, but the Brian group is still commencing for group dinners, watching sports and small talk in the kitchen. Sure, Heather may be no Marjorie, and Ivy puts a twist in the normal girl gab, but I like the changes and how this group is constantly mutating and conforming to the present situation.

And presently, we've got an uncomfortable mother-to-be with "full-on Sydney Bristow kicks" — I wonder if co-producer J.J. Abrams (creator of Alias) snuck that in there — and lots of other uncomfortable non-pregnant problems, like the latest sad Dave-and-Deena moment when they verbally recognized the fact that they both aren't wearing their rings anymore.

But I'm not going to dwell on the separated couple this week. I finally feel bad for Brian. Up until now, I've been telling myself that he puts himself in tough situations and hangs out there just to torture himself. But now, I think he's just finding unfortunate holes that suck him in like quicksand, even if he’s not purposely stepping there to see if it's really quicksand. There always seems to be competition when he really likes someone. His best friend. His father. This isn't just any competition… it's close-to-home competition. And I think it's about time that we see Brian date someone for more than two seconds, just so we can get a feel of what he's like in a real relationship.

But even though Brian's in an alternate dating universe, there are budding relationships popping up in greener gardens. The "sweet little sandwich lady" Roxanne (Valery Ortiz) — whose sandwiches bulging with tofurella and other weird mismatched ingredients were difficult to look at — is a cute match with Dave, even though she’s considerably younger. Check out my interview with Valery, and find out how she handled working with an older, more "mature" cast.

Speaking of maturity, how embarrassing for Deena when she was going on and on about the limo, and it was there for her. It was definitely an interesting contrast between her and Dave's dates. Jumbo jet… arcade. Dinner in San Francisco… merry-go-round. I did like the photo booth pictures, though. Genuine. No fancy show.

Meanwhile, Bar Fight 1 and 2 were playing Forgive Me Father and figuring out life during their community service. And in the middle of a soup kitchen, we got this flashback of Brian and his mom Lillian (Patty McCormack). "I just wanted to feel free for a while," she said, and for the first time, I fully recognized that it's not just Brian who has been breaking his life into pieces. The elements leading him to this point in his life have been falling apart around him. His parents, his friendships, his almost-relationships, his career. His mom's manic episodes — something, according to Bridget, he needs to deal with before he can have a stable relationship with any woman.

And while Deena was debating "thanking" T.K. for his grand gesture, Nicole was wishing she had the opportunity just to get that baby out of her belly. She was doing anything she could to induce labor. I've never seen a pregnant woman running uphill on a treadmill before — it's not a pretty sight. I love how she was flirting in her support group in hopes of getting some action.

At the end of this date night, Dave and Valery won for most compatibility, while T.K. and Deena flew home in awkward silence. But their little game of truth brought out some heavy facts that are hard to hear on a first date, but at the same time necessary. What wasn't necessary was exchanging stories with Deena.

I think Bar Fight Community Service was more successful. Adam's guilt about working for wealthy clients led him to question his career. And Brian reintroduced himself to Bridget, in a way, leaving the door cracked for the possibility of something more than a friendship.

The show is definitely bringing in new story lines almost every week and introducing characters that make the dynamic of the group more intricate. It will be interesting to see more of Brian and Nic's mom, as well as Roxanne, T.K. and anyone else that comes along to spin the merry-go-round.

So, before this episode's opening credits even played, my roommate — who tends to predict story lines before they even happen — blurted out, "She's seeing Brian's father!" referring to Bridget. Huh. Interesting theory, roommate… and with her prediction history, I didn't dismiss it right away.

But then we met Tracy (Jane Sibbett), his wife. So without proof of some naughty affair going on behind office doors at this point, I thought Bridget's "on-and-off" guy was someone else — or possibly didn't exist at all. Tracy and Dad seemed very compatible and happy, and I liked how Brian seemed happy to witness that.

Not so happy? Adam and Heather. The shotgun couple were butting heads… and lifestyles. With Heather's late nights and Adam's regimented schedule, I'm not sure how they'll mesh from here on out. And Jimmy threw a wrench into the already-shaky relationship with his background check on the bride. "If a friend has a friend and that friend is me? Then yes, you should tell him everything," Adam said. I can't believe he had the strength to avoid looking at the record check before putting it in his jacket pocket.

I loved how Dave went to Angelo's movie screening with Nicole. I felt like I was in the theater with them, with a heart as heavy as Nic's when Angelo appeared larger than life on the screen. Seeing his costar so upset outside the theater was a clear indication to me that she was involved with Angelo. In fact, when they first showed her, I figured she was in the car with him when it crashed because of her visible injury. But Dave thwarted any questions Nic had about Naples and what Angelo was doing while he was on location.

Meanwhile, Deena's cupcakes were attracting all sorts of attention. How old was that guy who asked her out for a hamburger, 20? Talk about awkward when T.K. caught them out together.

I couldn't help but laugh a little when Larissa let Deena's dating secret slip, but I quickly changed emotions when I saw the look on Dave's face. I swear, I feel bad for him almost every week. But Deena had a pretty big defense lined up… their fight was intense. "Wow, I really hate you sometimes," she said. But what Dave and Deena do almost every time they disagree is jump into an apology. They're lost. They don't know what they're doing. They're not together, but they're not really apart, either. It's agonizing to watch, but seems so real to me that it's more believable to see them suffer than to find a solution right away.

Nic, on the other hand, was seeking resolution. Despite Dave's advice, she decided to look into Angelo's accident. She even had enough nerve to find the woman who had had "a moment" with her husband — a moment that apparently couldn't compare to his love for Nicole.

And just then, another investigation gone wrong: Heather found the record check in Adam's jacket pocket (just as my roommate predicted, by the way). Why didn't Adam think that Heather might have skeletons in her closet? He doesn't even know her! I guess he wanted to believe he was marrying someone who didn't keep secrets — like Marjorie did — and that everything would be sweet and sexy this time around. And maybe it will. After all, just when I think they're going to break it off, he pulls it back together. Interesting that Heather seems to have a tough-girl aspect to her when it comes to defending her own honor, but she becomes so insecure about their marriage that it's really Adam who's gluing the vows together again.

But my favorite story line of this episode was Dave and Deena — a couple whose vows were uttered so long ago, they've forgotten how it feels to believe in them. It was such a Dave move to peek out the window when Deena was outside with T.K. and then sprint to the couch so that she wouldn't know. There was so much sadness between them this week, even with the touches of humor wedged in between. I think I'll always love Dave's attempts to use a joke to make her laugh — and hopefully remind his wife with whom she fell in love when they were younger.

Another yo-yo situation in this episode? Bridget. She wants Brian, she doesn't want Brian. She bats her eyelashes, she tries to one-up him at work. "Why do you like me? I'm so mean," she says to him. That's what I was thinking! But, I like the dynamic between them, because Brian is breaking her down, cracking off pieces of her shell… until we're left with a lingerie-clad real estate agent sprawled on Brian's bed, asleep. How did she fall asleep in less than a minute?

And just when I'm ready to feel satisfied in believing that I might be right instead of my roommate, she yells, "I knew it!" as the truth about Bridget and big-shot Dad comes pouring out. "I don't even know what to say to you," Brian said to her outside the party. (Sidenote: Did anyone else laugh at the sign that had "Summer" crossed out on it?)

I have to commend the music producers of this show. They always wind up the final scenes with the perfect songs, with lyrics completely fitting of each situation. "You never made much sense, you never stood a chance, if we're honest." Thing is, we know Bridget's not gone just yet. Neither is T.K., despite his trip to Australia.

It may be hard to hear the truth, learn details after the fact, discover secrets that may or may not matter. But it all landslides into this pool of uncertainty that these friends seem to swim around in on a regular basis. I'm not sure I agree with Dave about the theme of this episode — I think I would want to know the truth… even if it was too late for it to matter. It always matters in some way or another. Maybe I'll ask my roommate to predict my future… and learn about some details in advance, so I don't end up standing in the middle of some road leading to nowhere. Sorry, Brian.

"I think getting married was a mistake." Phew. Me too, Heather. She definitely had a point with the whole my-life-is-in-your-hands thing — it is kind of weird to think about being so connected to someone whom you've just met... who possibly did marry you because he's on the rebound after a traumatic experience. But in a surprising twist — at least to me — they decide to try being married after all. This should be interesting.

In another fast lane, speed-dating at Ivy's was pretty funny, especially when she prematurely blew the horn when her husband sat down in front of an attractive woman who looked excited to meet him. The whole competitive story line between Brian and Bridget showed both of their weaknesses... and strengths. Brian is that guy who can't say no to anyone, who loves to be liked, and who doesn't want to disappoint. I find that's only a minor downfall, because his nice, friendly demeanor is endearing enough to bring in clients and to get Bridget's attention.

A refreshing turn in this episode was the introduction of T.K. (Brennan Elliot). While Dave's tied up with diaper bags and screaming children — one of whom walked for the first time in an especially adorable moment — Deena was batting her smoky eyelashes at her first real cupcake client (not counting Brian). I wonder how long he'll stick around, though, because we could clearly see that 13 years is a long time to just let go. Dave was rightfully defensive when he told Adam not to compare his relationship with Deena to a spur-of-the-moment wedding. And Deena's breakdown in Dave's office pretty much said it all: "You're the only one I could ever depend on." Is that a bad thing?

Their separation is so awkward. Rings, no rings. Dates, no dates. Kisses, then permission to date other people. I guess they're trying to show the fogginess of being apart but still together in so many aspects. But it's so hard for me to stick with an opinion about Deena. One minute, I like her; the next, I'm rolling my eyes.

And talk about something even more awkward... Brian in a hospital room with his speed-date's father, trying to steal his food. And then, in true Brian form, promising the man that he'll take care of his daughter if anything tragic happens. Classic. Sometimes, I love Brian's expressions during those silent staring moments.

Like many other episodes, I liked the end of this one. Good music combined with some positivity: Brian and Bridget flirting with the idea of being friends, Adam and Heather laughing in bed, Dave and his daughters out to dinner.

Nothing too heated this week, but I don't doubt the fire in this show's belly. After surviving despite critics, What About Brian is holding its own, even with its broken relationships and revolving door. In fact, maybe that's what keeps me watching this intimate group of friends who bicker like teenagers and love like "lost souls" who can't seem to say no.

"Your mom was a stripper?" What a fuzzy-warm opening — a budding relationship that's in the all-smiles phase. I'm excited about Adam and Heather (aka Summer) and her theory about waiting until the fifth date to get down and dirty. Jimmy thinks this is just a rebound thing, but you can see in Adam's eyes it's definitely not. Although, I wonder if his conversation with Jimmy sparked memories of Marjorie.

In the hospital maternity ward, Brian's hair is growing on me, because it's actually done nicely.... Somebody found some mousse! "Are you high?" he asks Nicole when she says working for their father might actually be a good idea. He'd happily switch and grieve for her while she works for Dad. Oh Brian... chin up, buddy. I swear one day he'll be happy.... But we really wouldn't have a show if he found it now.

Working for Dad means having boundaries. "I'm not expecting any favors, and I won't be asking for any," Brian says. And it's straight business from here on out as Dad lays down the company rules. Welcome Bridget (Krista Allen) into the mix.... Isn't it her lucky day? She comes late to work and is assigned to mentor Brian as he learns the business. Immediate attraction. Immediate trouble. I can smell it from my couch. And suddenly, she's wiping his latte-covered mustache — although, I didn't see any milk lingering on his lip — in a clichéd flirting moment. "Stand there and look cute," she says. Is that code for "I wear the pants in this relationship-to-be"? This should be good.

Deena and Dave are trying to rotate living in their own house with the kids. I just want to hug Dave. He's so genuine. He's a good dad. He's trying. "I am not a complete nimrod," he jokes with her. That one made me laugh out loud, because he's sincere but he's still got his humor tucked underneath. And, wouldn't we just all love a day like Deena's? Massage, shopping, a hike. Good for her. Mommy has a time-out... the adult kind.

Later that night...

Adam invites Heather to his work party. "You don't have to invite me just 'cause I found your cheese," she says in that endearing, nonstripper kind of way. But I think he's a little worried about Jimmy's reaction. When Heather shows up looking more elegant than ever, Summer is nowhere in sight. "I'm a chiropractor," she tells his colleagues. But after a few drinks, Adam gives her away in an embarrassing moment. He doesn't seem to care after overhearing some of the lawyers talk about him not making partner — or at least, he assumes they're talking about him.

And Deena's struggling with who she really is outside motherhood. Her mommy time-out didn't exactly free her, but only made her think more about her children and her future life.

Dave and Brian kick back with a few beers and reminisce over old video games. I still love their interactions — they have these pacts that are always filled with pride and promise. But often come with risk... when Dave suggests some new concepts for his project at work, he seems lost in the big ocean that is his new company. And Brian returns to the house Bridget tried to sell yesterday, but with a different approach — a sentimental Brian approach (that apparently works on some women). A job well done leads to an interoffice no-no and clothes being readjusted sloppily. All I kept thinking was, "Typical. Only Brian."

It's a new day....

And Deena's back to mommyhood with trays of cupcakes taking over the kitchen. Does Mrs. Fields have some competition on her hands? I feel for her — she's confused, a little lost, she needs something for herself... just like her husband.

But Dave is doing a lot worse this morning. Something's wrong, and I'm panicking at the thought of this character falling apart. Will an illness bring them closer? Will tragedy continue to haunt the troubled group? At home with Deena, he seems OK, more clearheaded. Was it anxiety?

And in another office, Bridget seems to have gained some perspective. "As far as I'm concerned, last night never happened," she tells Brian in a Grey's Anatomy-like elevator moment. But at least he's released from under her watch when Dad finds out he's really the one who sold the house. "Hopefully, you'll feel at home here," Dad says. I loved when Brian put the pens and pencils in his mug. Unpacking his bags, finally?

I haven't been that interested in Nic's story line this week, but there's something to be said for Rosanna Arquette's scene with the grieving group. Her fears pour out, her frustrations are easier said. And we get some relief with Angelo's death, seeing Nicole really smile.

My favorite conversation of the night? Dave and Brian's bonding over their love for cupcakes. Moist, "supple" cupcakes. Who else can ooo and aaah over frosting? Those two crack me up.

But what wasn't so funny to me was Adam and Heather having a shotgun wedding. What was that about? Somehow I see a clash coming.... Will Marjorie return? Talk about a last-minute twist. I would have titled this episode, "What About Some Self-control?"

After an extra week to digest the news of Angelo's death, What About Brian returns in a somber state. We open at Angelo's service and with Dave trying to remember the lighter moments of his friendship, mixed in with a little lesson for everybody: Life's too short. But sadness quickly turns into the quirky tone that usually resonates in this show, as Karen creates a schedule for the friends to rotate looking after Nic. Despite Brian breaking up with her after the service, I have an unsettling feeling that she's not completely gone. But how long is she going to stick around? Because I'm really missing sweet, levelheaded Julie from Felicity while I'm watching Amy Jo Johnson play this irritating part.

William Devane is stirring the pot as Nic and Brian's father. Their family history is slowly unfolding — the mental health of their mom, the blame placed on their dad. Brian clearly still holds a grudge, and I'm quickly reminded of the sometimes-rebellious Matt we used to see on 7th Heaven. Gladly, I don't think we'll see Reverend Camden resolving this one.

But leave it to the writers to tastefully blend in some humor during this tragic story line. When Dave finds Angelo's urn in Nic's closet, we get a classic exchange between him and Brian. I really love the combination of Brian's seriousness and Dave's sarcasm. Cut to the business partners playing with plastic guns like children and contemplating their new business plan to salvage all their hard work.

Adam's handling the legal side of Angelo's death gave us this rare moment between him and Nic, and we got a sweet scene as they reminisced about Angelo and his goofy golf hat.

Dave's speech didn't just hit a nerve with me but apparently with Deena as well. "Life is short." But just when I thought this was headed toward reconciliation, she suggests they see a lawyer. I guess wasting time in "limbo" with Dave isn't really living life to the fullest for Deena. But when they go to Jimmy for a legal consultation about getting a divorce, he tries to convince them to rethink their decision, as a friend (in my opinion). I think Jimmy still saw some hope lingering between them and didn't want to believe they couldn't make it work.

In a less matured relationship, Summer is flipping through Adam's yearbook and he's reminded of the things he's always wanted to do, things he set out to do way back when.

But uplifting thoughts soon turn sour when Brian discovers Nic looking at Angelo's urn in her bedroom. It's the first time we really see Nic grieving — she's remained a rock thus far while everyone else was falling to pieces. She needed to flip out. "Shut up, Brian. Just shut up." She lashes out at him, going as far as saying that he's never known what it's even like to love someone at all, not even Marjorie. It's a great scene for Rosanna Arquette — she really got inside the character and made me believe that she's so sad she's become angry.

While everyone is mourning Angelo, I am mourning Dave and Deena — the air around them gets more tense with every scene. Confiding in Brian, Dave lays down the news of his divorce, but probably weighing more heavily on their friendship is the news that he took a job with another company. Once again, Brian gets dealt the loner card. "It's time for me to grow up," says Dave. So Brian goes to the last place he wants to go — his father's company. A safe choice, but probably a smart one considering he's got no savings left and no partner to work with anymore.

In another office in town, Adam finds out he didn't make partner, and Jimmy — who did get the title — tells him he needs to watch himself, stay out of bar fights, and maybe he'll have more of a chance next time around. Hard to hear, clearly, as Adam quickly leaves.

But back to the central story this week: Nic is afraid of shutting everyone out like their mother did. She finally cries. She finally accepts she's alone. But when a package arrives from Angelo, it sent chills up my spine. The eerie timing of Angelo's gift for the baby and Nic's abnormal pains brings some preterm contractions, according to the Doogie Howser on call. And after Nic's scare, it seems there was a shift between Dave and Deena ‐ a nostalgia, a love that isn't over. I don't know if one night together will resurrect their marriage, though.

And even though one relationship is wavering back and forth, a new one is just beginning. Trying his hardest not to be alone, Adam opens up to Summer a little and she has some advice for him: Live a little. Look back at who he once wanted to be. And after some thought... he takes her up on the offer.

The life these friends created is being torn apart at every seam. Losing one caused a continuous unraveling of relationships and our tight-knit group is suddenly more disconnected than we've ever seen them. But even though this episode made me sad for almost everyone — even Karen when she was obviously let down by Brian's words — I thought the story lines made the show stronger and created more controversy to deal with and more interesting turns for the writers to take.

Bravo to the producers for the close of this episode. Everyone together on the pier, Angelo's favorite Ferris wheel as a backdrop, well-chosen music, and my favorite part — Adam slipping on Angelo's ugly golf hat as they truly say farewell to their friend/husband/brother-in-law. Goodbye, Angelo. I'll miss your good looks and sexy smile... and the calming affect you had on the rest of your crazy friends. Without you, they're bound for tangled love and loss.